Saturday, August 8, 2009

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Our second day in Ethiopia was quite uneventful.

When we we woke on Tuesday morning AK was still sleeping. When she began to stir around, she raised up in her bed, looked over at us and began to whimper this sad little cry. I told Pat she is thinking to herself, "dang, those white people are still here"! I picked her up and put her in bed with us and she soon began to smile.

For anyone traveling I will tell you this. It is EXTREMELY difficult to leave your child with a caregiver while you go out, especially if you have a toddler. Our experience was very difficult. She would cry when we left her and then she would cry when went and got her when we returned. I can't imagine how confused she must have been. One HUGE drawback is that the caregivers are also employees of the foster care center. She was very attached to her caregiver so it made it very difficult on everyone involved. The caregivers very much enjoyed the "attachment" to them and sometimes seemed to foster that any way that they could. AK had a tremendous amount of candy the first time we left her with the caregivers. It was an all around difficult situation and if you are traveling soon, I just want you to be prepared for this. Of course, if you are adopting an infant, it's going to be much harder on you than them.

We went out a little while this morning with our dear friends, the Santees for some coffee and some shopping. It was a lot of fun and I wish now that we could have spent more time doing stuff like that. See all that you can see while you are there. I regret not getting out more. We shopped for a little while then headed home. AK was very happy the rest of the day. We did feel good that she cried when we left her, at least she was beginning to develop some attachment. Thank you Lord!

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

June 22, 2009
Alyza Kate's first night with us. If you have been keeping up with us for very long, it might
look familiar. You are home now girls, you are home now...


Remember this?

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Our First Family PIcture


June 22, 2009


Gotcha Day - Alyza Kate Danaite Hood

June 22, 2009 Gotcha Day-Alyza Kate Danaite Hood
Addis Ababa, Ethiopia


Our first glimpse of Alyza Kate was incredible. She was so scared and so skiddish, but we knew what to expect - LOTS and LOTS of crying. And she did not disappoint. She cried for about 50 minutes and then she stopped and to be honest, she really didn't cry much more after that.

Finally, in our arms.

Very solemn, very scared.

And there they are - the TEARS!

and more TEARS,

and more TEARS!!!


And then suddenly, we have this. She has never looked back.

What a sweet day it was. We will always have that smile in our hearts.
It seems that she knew she was "home". Funny, how God works huh?

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Arriving in Ethiopia

I will do my very best to catch up on my posting in the days to come. So, here is the second installment!

Flashback to June 22, 2009.

We were suppose to arrive in Addis on Sunday night, get a good nights sleep and be refreshed to meet out sweet girl the next day. Well, as you read about our crazy journey to Addis, things didn't go quite as planned. But we trust that they went exactly as they were ordained to. :)

Our first glimpse of Ethiopia-the view from the airport window.

We arrived in Addis and the weather was absolutely beautiful. It was sunny, no humidity and just incredible. We found after our arrival that only 2 of our bags had arrived and it wasn't the 2 that had our belongings in them. So, we headed to our guest house with our 2 humanitarian aid bags and was told to check back later that night to see if the rest of our luggage made the trip. Fortunately, it did.


The Bejoe House

We stayed at the Bejoe House and had a great stay. We stayed in Room 4 at the bottom of the steps, with an outside entrance. We had a birdseye view when the van pulled up with the children. We peaked out the window the whole time. Our stay was wonderful, even though we cut it short and came home a day early. I would highly recommend the Bejoe. We had only been about a couple of hours when the van pulled up with the children. Talk about tired, excited, scared, thrilled, overwhelmed, emotional, and about a million other adjectives. But, the calming relaxed atmosphere of the Bejoe helped a great deal.


The garden at the Bejoe House which is the front lawn.
We spent lots of time here blowing bubbles and playing with a beach ball!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Why We Do What We Do

Many of you ask the question, why? Very simply put, this is the reason we do what we do. We are not saints, we are not super heroes, we are not anything special. We are simply called...and we try our very best to be obedient.

What is your part? What can you do? What can you do for the orphan crisis in our world? What are you being called to do?

Friday, July 24, 2009

Emerging From the Fog


Oh my goodness, I cannot believe that it's been over a month since I have posted. Wow, how things have changed since the last time I was here. First of all, let me say that we are doing well. Alyza Kate is adjusting very well, better than I could have ever imagined. She eats well, sleeps well, and has a sweet little smile that melts your heart. She is miss personality and continually amazes us by how fast she learns and how content she is. What a true joy it is to have been chosen to parent this child. She and Jadyn like each other most of the time and we are beginning to see some signs of real bonding as sisters. They play together pretty well and squeal and giggle a lot. That's not to say it hasn't been a major adjustment at times. Both of their little worlds have certainly been turned upside down, but for the most part, they are handling it pretty well.

I don't even know where to begin. The last time I left you I was getting ready to leave on a plane bound for Ethiopia. That's where the fun began. It became such a saga that at times, I myself couldn't believe it was happening. I guess I should start there, where I left off. We were sitting in the Dulles airport, getting ready to board the plane and all was well. We were scheduled to leave at 8:30 pm. We boarded the plane and there is where the fun began. We backed out of the gate and stopped. We pulled back into the gate and sat on the plane for FIVE hours. It was literally the plane from you know where, the hottest I have ever been in my life for FIVE hours. They kept us on the plane, finally served us dinner, and no one had a clue what was going on. The announcement was made that we were going to deplane and we would be given further instructions at that time. At 1:30 a.m., we got off the plane and were told that the flight was canceled and that only business class (which we were not) and people with critical emergencies would be put on the next flight which was leaving at 10 something the next morning.

We knew that we would be traveling on the same flight with the Santee's, from Kansas, and had met and connected with them in the airport. We were already getting to know them and saw right away that they were going to be friends for life. We had a lot in common, including the fact that we were stuck in the airport and HAD to get on that next flight.

They took the business class and half the rest of the passengers on to a hotel and we got in line at the counter to make sure that we were on the "emergency" list. We waited with 2 other families from a different agency and we were prepared to cry if necessary. We plead our case and in the mean time, someone came out and said that the plane was fixed and that we were leaving after all. YIKES! I was not at all happy about getting on a plane that it took them 6 hours to fix, but I was prepared to walk to Ethiopia. We moved out of that line, into another line to board. After waiting in that line, we were told that the crew had been on duty too long and that we were NOT leaving again. So, it was back in the "emergency" line to see if we were actually on the list. The man behind the counter said that we were and by this time it was nearing 3:00 a.m. He said that we would be given a hotel if we chose, but he wouldn't advise it. We needed to be there early the next morning to make sure that we got a boarding pass for the next flight. We were afraid to leave at this point anyway. So, you guess it, we slept in the airport. We made beds in our little corner of the airport along with Dave, Cami and Sophi and endured what was left of the night. It will certainly give us something to talk about in the years to come.
My "bed"


The Santee's "room".


Pat - bedded down for the rest of the night.


That's 3:30 a.m. for those of you keeping score!

I will do my very best to post the rest of our trip and where we are now. Until then, here's a little sneak peak of Alyza Kate.